When I found out that Lincoln was in the breech position I never in a million years thought there would be repercussions.

We didn’t want a lot of people to know, but our oldest had to wear a Doc Band starting when he was 4 months old. We didn’t want a lot of questions, but in the grand scheme of things, it really wasn’t that big of a deal… but try telling that to a new mother of a then 3 month old. I really wish I would have had someone to talk to that had been through the process, but I didn’t so I was very uneducated about the whole thing.

So here’s our story, and at the end of the day, it’s the best decision we’ve made for Lincoln to date!

austin-moms-blog-wearing-the-doc-band

When Lincoln was born we thought he was absolutely perfect! He always measured in the 90th % for head circumference so while it was big we never noticed anything wrong with the shape of it. At Lincoln’s 2 month check up our pediatrician recommended we go to Cranial Technologies to have a free exam to see whether Lincoln was a candidate for the Doc Band. I wasn’t very familiar with this thing called a doc band so I checked out ole’ faithful, Google. I WAS HORRIFIED! IT WAS A HELMET (I’ll get to that later)! All I could do was hope and pray that he wouldn’t be a candidate for this thing that looked like a bicycle helmet.

So we went in for our free consultation at Cranial Technologies. Ugh, I was devastated when we walked in and I saw so many adorable little babies wearing helmets. The technician was super friendly and walked me through what we were going to be doing, which was really just wetting down his hair and taking multiple pictures from various angles of his head. We sat and waited for a while and then the technician came into our room with all of the photos. She began showing me areas of his head that were misshaped and told me it was most likely from him being in the breech position. Basically, my rib cage squashed the right side of his head due to him being jammed up in there for the final months of my pregnancy. So she broke the news to me and told me Lincoln was indeed a candidate for the Doc Band. I BURST into tears! My baby was going to wear a helmet! The technician corrected me and told me it’s not a “helmet”… it’s a Doc Band… woops. I asked a lot of questions and eventually she put me at ease. She said ultimately it was our decision as to whether we wanted him to wear the band, but that his facial features were beginning to show signs of asymmetry and that his ears were already off balance because of it (one was further back on his head than the other). Great, if we don’t do it our son is always going to blame us for his misshaped head and asymmetrical face and ears.

You can see how on his left side (our right) the bulging above his ear. You can also see how one ear appears higher than the other, but it’s actually more forward on his face than the other. You can also see how wide his forehead is.

You can see Lincoln’s hairline and how it’s crooked. Another sign of how it’s misshapen.

This picture really showcases how off his little noggin really was.

We looked at the Doc Band like braces for the head and that’s how we described to everyone. We told everyone to call it a band NOT a helmet, because a helmet is for protection and a band is for reshaping. The good news was that because he was still so young, his head was growing rapidly so he would only have to wear it for 6-8 weeks. The bad news was that he would wear the band 23 hours 7 days/week with only 1 hour/day allowed for changing, bath time, or the occasional photo opp. The band was to be tight in areas where his head was too big and loose in areas where it was too small. As his head grew those tight places would be held and his head would grow into the loose areas.

When he got fitted for the band they took what looked like cut off panty hose and put it completely over his head and face. I thought he was going to have a panic attack, but strangely he didn’t. As his little face was smushed by panty hose I couldn’t help but laugh… he looked like he was about to rob a bank! They had to do this for 3D imaging to create the doc band custom for his little head. The process to get fitted and have the band made was a few weeks so he started wearing it around 4 months. Great, just in time for the holidays!

Really the process flew by! We had weekly visits to Cranial Technologies where they would shave out parts of the band to allow room for more growth. The band didn’t affect his sleeping at all… it was like an appendage for Lincoln… something he just had. He sweated galore in the thing and we didn’t get to put cute hats on him during the winter, but overall, we’re so happy we made the Doc Band decision! Yes, he got all sorts of looks when we were out at places but for the most part he got so much positive attention! In fact he got WAY more attention with the band than without. I think it was because most people caught themselves staring so rather than just staring and saying nothing they would stare and say “oh how cute is he?” Whatever, it worked for me :). And if you ever see a baby with a Doc Band DON’T call it a helmet… take it from me, it annoyed the crud out of us!

7 weeks later, Cranial Technologies felt his head was as good as it could be and he had graduated from the program! No more stinky Doc Band! We were so happy he was finished with the band and so thankful that his ears were in the right spot and that his head was “normal”. Here are his after pictures.

You can see how his head is much more smooth. It is still a little flat on his right side and will always be that way, but as our technician put it, his 1st girlfriend will never notice.

A perfect little egg!

At 16 months of age {update: Lincoln is now 4 years old!!!!}, the Doc Band is such a distant memory, but we still keep his Popsicle head and band so Lincoln can see it when he’s older.

The band went through hell and lost letters and paint along the way!

To see more before and after photos, please click on the link– Mack, Lincoln 02-07-11 Exit-1 And please understand that at 3 months Lincoln was going through a “startled” look phase so be kind with your thoughts on page 2 :).

:: Did you child have to wear a Doc Band? ::

 

 

23 COMMENTS

  1. My little man! It did stink but the worst was/is the uneducated stares. Remember folks this is not a helmet! Braces for the head! Great job darling.

  2. Seems like just yesterday that we were painting and decorating his band. I am glad that Allison and Wes decided that the Doc Band was the best bet for Lincoln’s future.

  3. My baby has to get one next week. Thank you for your thoughts and experiences. My baby sweats a lot all the time (like his dad) so I am so afraid of him being uncomfortable. I never heard of this before this. He is my third son and I thought I knew it all. He got his from being in a carseat and bouncie seat too much because he had acid reflux. I hope he recovers quickly. Your baby boy is so cute in those pictures!

    • Juliet, the time will fly by and it will soon be a distant memory. In regards to the whole sweating thing, Lincoln never was just sitting there dripping sweat… it was only when we removed the band for bath time that his head was sweaty and stinky so we had to wipe down the band every night before bed time with rubbing alcohol in hopes of keeping the stinch down :/. I don’t know how old your kiddo is, but their little heads grow so quickly and they are finished with it before you know it! Good luck and keep us posted with how it goes… decorating the band was a lot of fun.

      • Mason is 8 months old. I am trying to be strong for him! Moms go through so much worse we are lucky to have happy healthy babies! Did you have someone decorate it for you? We want to go all out for his. I know silly but maybe it will just make us feel better. I will keep you posted.

        • I’m sure you’ve heard this before, but it’s so light weight and it didn’t affect Lincoln at all. He could not have cared less about wearing it.

          We decorated it ourselves. We got Mod Podge and used that first as a primer and then painted it all over light blue. Get a good brush, because ours kept losing bristles and it was irritating trying to get them off the band with wet paint. I then bought fuzzy little stickers (Hobby Lobby) and glued them on. We had to touch up the band periodically because the paint would start peeling and letter started to fall off so at the end it looked pretty ratty. The good thing is the paint on the band dries very quickly so it’s very easy to decorate yourself. I know there are decal companies that sell stickers for doc bands if you want to go that route rather than painting it yourself. You just can’t afford the time of having someone else do it for you, because that just adds time to your baby having to wear it.

          Check out this link for decals. Good luck!

          http://www.blingyourband.com/

  4. This is such a great recap of the same doc band story we had with my little jimmy. Except he needed two bands :). I’m going to save this for anyone I hear needs a band in the future. I couldn’t have said it better myself! One more thing, when people asked what it was (and if my baby had fallen, nice). I looked at it as a chance to educate people and maybe help another baby whose parents didn’t know about it!

    • Thanks, Wendy 🙂 I actually had to go to a doctor yesterday for Lincoln and when we were going over his history and the doc band was mentioned he actually said, “oh for his soft spot?” What???? This was a doctor that said this! Aye aye aye…. But you’re right, I always looked at it as an opportunity to educate people. Nobody asks “why does your kid have metal things on his/her teeth?”. Everyone just knows, they’re braces! Okay, off my soap box!

  5. Thank you for sharing this. My son just got his 2nd band today. The progress is wonderful. I only wish our military insurance Tricare covered even a portion.

  6. Thank you so much for sharing your story and pictures. It is encouraging indeed. Lincoln is such a cutie! Congratulations on the results!

  7. Thank you for sharing your story! My little one had her first consultation yesterday, and we are going ahead with getting her a band. I’m with you. It irritates the crap out of me when people call it a helmet. I’ve been struggling with trying to cope – I’m worried what people will think. I feel so guilty and deffensive, and my hub’s family hasn’t helped. We told his Grandma about it, and she said: “Oh that’s ok, lots of kids are slow.”… I was horrorfied…..

    • Hey Brig, as I mentioned in the blog… Lincoln received WAY more positive attention when he was in the band than when he wasn’t. We got many more “oh he’s so darling” quotes with it 🙂 Now what they were really thinking is beyond me, but the facade was nice! Older generations certainly don’t “get” it and I don’t blame you for being horrified. I always described it as braces for the head. Good luck with the band…time will fly by and your little’s head will be perfectly shaped in NO time!

      Allison

LEAVE A REPLY

Please enter your comment!
Please enter your name here